The Brightside: Celebrating the Secret Super Power Of Grandparents

October 17, 2024

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Written by Team Banabae

The Brightside: Celebrating the Secret Super Power Of Grandparents

October 17, 2024

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Written by Team Banabae

In the lead up to Grandparents Day on 27th October, we take a look at the important relationship between child and grandparent and how this can be mutually beneficial for both in terms of health, happiness and overall wellbeing.

There’s something magical about watching your Mum or Dad and your little one form their own quirky, delightful bond. Whenever I catch a glimpse of my mum with my son, it’s like a snapshot of pure joy. They have their own language of love that only they understand—part hugs, part cheeky grins, part conspiracy over sneaking one too many lollies.

National Grandparents Day is 27th of October. Yep! It does exist, and we happen to think this is a day that deserves a little more recognition! The bond between grandparent and grandchild is extremely special and one we should nurture celebrate as grandparents once again become a key part of our childs village. So, let's dive into some of the unique aspects of intergenerational family relationships and the many benefits.

Tolerance: The Grandparent’s Secret Sauce

Let’s face it, you’ve all seen the viral reels. Grandparents are way more chill with their grandkids than they ever were with their own. Grandparents have entered the “I survived raising my own kids; now it’s time for the fun stuff” phase of life. Plus, they’re usually better rested and less stressed than parents who are juggling a million things at once. Sleep deprivation and toddler tantrums? Not grandma's problem—she’s bringing a calm, red frogs before dinner kind of energy into the room ... whilst Grandpa often brings the Dad jokes and patience for games and stories.

Caregiving: It really does take a Village

You’ve heard the saying, “It takes a village to raise a child.” Grandparents often play a vital role in that village! With daycare costs climbing faster than my toddler after a sugar rush, having grandparents step in as caregivers is a financial and emotional game-changer. Studies show that children who spend regular time with grandparents often feel more secure and supported and that grandparents who are actively involved in caregiving live longer! Looking after their adorable little chaos-makers actually boosts their life expectancy by up to five years. It’s a win for all.

Identity and History: The Family Time Machine

Grandparents are like human time machines—they provide a direct link to a child’s heritage. Want to know about your great-grandfather’s surf life-saving medals? Or how your nan rocked a permed mullet in the 80s? Your kids will learn these stories and more from their grandparents, giving them a richer sense of identity and belonging. For a fun bonding activity, consider creating a family tree with a grandparent. It’s like a real-life history lesson but usually with more sweets involved.

Development: The World’s Best Life Coach (And Playmate)

For kids, grandparents are like the ultimate combo of teacher, playmate, and life coach. They have the wisdom of age but still retain that playful side that lets them jump into imaginary adventures. Whether it’s helping with school projects or simply playing a game of hide-and-seek, grandparents play an essential role in their grandchild’s emotional and cognitive development. A study from *Child Development* even showed that kids with strong grandparental relationships tend to have fewer emotional and behavioural problems.

Health and wellbeing

Here’s the secret: grandkids keep grandparents young! My own mum recently broke her hip, but what motivated her to power through the physio? You guessed it—getting back to chasing the grandkids around. A recent study from the *Journal of Aging and Health* found that seniors who regularly care for young children are more likely to stay physically active, which leads to better overall health. So, while it might seem like Grandma’s just indulging in toddler tea parties, she’s actually staying fit and strong.

A Scientific Note on Intergenerational Care

It turns out the magic of grandparents extends beyond the family. Programs that connect seniors with young children, like those in aged care homes, have proven to be incredibly beneficial. Research shows that these intergenerational activities boost cognitive function in older adults and help kids develop better social and emotional skills. If you haven’t already seen it, check out ABC’s *Old People’s Home for 4-Year-Olds*—it’s heartwarming proof that these relationships are nothing short of transformative.

How Can We Show Love to Our Superhero Grandparents?

Don’t take them for granted. A simple “thank you” or an extra hug goes a long way. Keep in touch, even if they’re far away. Zoom calls can keep those bonds strong. Gifts! Whether it’s something handmade by the kids or something special from you, gifts show love. Spend quality time together. Make it a priority to visit and create more memories. Show up at their home with your chaotic bundle of joy—they’ll secretly love the company.

These beautiful intergenerational relationships really are the gift that keeps on giving. Stronger bonds, better health, and another layer of joy to the journey of raising kids.