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The Brightside: Leslie Carvitto on Travelling With Kids

The Brightside: Leslie Carvitto on Travelling With Kids
The Brightside: Leslie Carvitto on Travelling With Kids



My son Weston LOVES the airport. And “obsessed” isn’t an exaggeration. I’m not sure if it’s nature, nurture, or the thrill of watching aeroplanes take off, but it works in our favour. With two American expat parents who love adventure and have family spread across the globe, travel is practically a family requirement—both out of necessity and love.

Family and creating memorable experiences together are core values for us, so since Weston was born, we’ve prioritised tackling the long trip back to the U.S. to see grandparents, aunts, uncles, and cousins. Our first attempt was, let’s say, “memorable.” Weston was six months old, and our 4pm flight was delayed, and delayed again, and delayed some more. By 10pm, I was still rocking him in the Ergo, desperately hoping for a miracle announcement, when the airline finally broke the news: our flight was cancelled.  


 With all the airport hotels booked and home hours away, we caught an Uber to a hotel in Melbourne and barely slept before the morning flight. Add a missed connection and weeks of back-and-forth with the airline, and we found ourselves asking: Can we do this whole travel-with-kids thing?  


 Thankfully, the rest of the trip was smooth sailing, and we’ve picked up a few tricks (and plenty of patience). While airline delays are still out of our control, we’ve learned a lot about making travel with a kid a bit smoother.  


 Most recently, we spent time in Hawaii soaking up the sunshine, splashing in gentle waves, and enjoying family-friendly adventures. Oahu is incredibly kid-friendly, making our trip a breeze! Read on for my favourite tips for travelling with kids and family-friendly highlights on the island of Oahu.

5 Tips For Travelling With Kids

1. Prioritise a Flexible Schedule

When travelling with kids, meticulously packed itineraries are basically begging for toddler sabotage. So avoid overloading your days with activities and expectations about what you can see and do each day. Instead, choose a few highlights and leave room for spontaneity and downtime. Some of the best memories you make will be the ones you didn’t plan for. Embrace the mantra “less is more.”


2. Plan Activities Everyone Will Love

Choose experiences that overlap with everyone’s interests. Love the water? Plan a beach day or boat trip. Enjoy hiking? Find a chill trail suitable for all ages. Appreciate art? Visit a kid-friendly museum or an outdoor sculpture park. Involve your kids in the planning; it’s their holiday too! Giving them a voice helps foster curiosity and makes them less likely to feel dragged along.



Rad Kid Classic Ringer Organic Cotton Tee
Magic Mama Cord Cap
Island Time Eco Rashie and Paddle Pant Bundle

3. Pack Smart Entertainment

Bring small toys, books, and activities for downtime, like at airports, restaurants or while you’re waiting in line. We fit everything into the Spookies Stripe Backpack)  Familiar toys work fine, but we noticed new items can provide extra excitement. Before our recent trip, we borrowed “new-to-us” Hot Wheels, a colouring book, and a push-pop toy from a friend, which kept our son engaged throughout the journey. 


Sunday Skating - AUD $24.99
Spookies Stripe Eco Kids Backpack - AUD $95.00
Baby Touch: Nursery Rhymes Play Book

4. Keep Essentials Easily Accessible

Trust me, at some point; you’ll need a ready-to-grab bag packed with all the essentials: wipes (for the inevitable sticky hands), a change of clothes (because accidents will happen), snacks (to avoid “hanger” meltdowns), and hand sanitiser. A small survival kit will go a long way, and you’ll be prepared for anything without digging through multiple bags. 


 *Always double-check that you have your survival bag before leaving your accommodation. There’s nothing worse than being out and about for the day and realising you’ve left it behind.


Old Mate Cord Adult Cap - Moss - AUD $55.00
Wave Rider Linen Shirt - Kids - AUD $79.00
Rad Kid Cord Bucket Hat - Tan - AUD $45.00

5. Check in with Each Other Daily

Travel is both exciting and tiring, with everyone’s needs evolving day by day. Take a few minutes each morning to check in with each family member. Ask questions and talk about how you’re all feeling. Discuss the day’s plans and set expectations together. This small daily ritual helps ensure that each family member feels heard and valued, and you can adjust the schedule based on people’s needs.  


Kid-Friendly Spots on Oahu

Dole Plantation:

Take the train ride through the pineapple fields and explore the world’s largest maze!

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The Zoo in Waikiki:

42-acre zoo in the heart of Waikiki. 

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Hoʻomaluhia Botanical Garden: 

Free to visit and has over 32 acres of hiking trails that wind through the gardens, forested areas, and a lake.

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Keiki and Plow:

An organic farm in Honolulu has a mission to inspire health, empower kids, and grow the community through sustainable agriculture. 

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The best beaches

Sharks Cove on the North Shore:

Rocky tidal pools on the North Shore is great for snorkelling and young kids.  


Oahu favourites: 

Kailua, Lani Kai, Waimanalo, Kaimanas and Waimea Bay. 


Diamond Head: 

For kids that are up to a bit of a walk, the 2.5-kilometre round trip to the summit provides sweeping sea views. 

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The Royal Hawaiian Center in Waikiki:

Yes, it’s a huge shopping centre, but it’s also home to free cultural lessons and performances like hula, ukulele, and lei-making classes.

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Shop holiday essentials for the whole family:

Wave Rider Linen Resort Shirt - Mens - AUD $129.00
Magic Mama and Magic Mini Cord Cap Bundle - AUD $95.00
Wave Edge Rib Knit Cami - Mint - AUD $89.00
Rainforest Organic Cotton Beach Bag - AUD $79.00